The Sting of Workplace Rejection: The Science of Social Pain

14 min

Explore the science of workplace rejection and social exclusion. Learn why being rebuffed by peers triggers a physiological response similar to physical pain.

The Sting of Workplace Rejection: The Science of Social Pain

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I feel emotionally attached to a coworker who is warm and excited with another friend but emotionally flat and reserved with me, and it’s making me feel rejected and obsessive over her reactions. How do I stop chasing her validation, rebalance the dynamic naturally, and become someone people gravitate toward without overtrying?

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