Is Monogamy Against Human Nature? Biology vs. Social Script

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Explore the debate on whether monogamy is a biological drive or a social script. Discuss pair bonds, polygyny in pre-industrial societies, and human nature.

Is Monogamy Against Human Nature? Biology vs. Social Script

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