Family Scapegoats: Projective Identification and the Mirror Effect

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Explore how family scapegoats experience projective identification and the mirror effect when leaving toxic relationships and setting healthy boundaries.

Family Scapegoats: Projective Identification and the Mirror Effect

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My therapist tome me to have compassion for my sister she’s in a toxic relationship with her husband but today she seen I was at my mom and suddenly she bring her son her daughter her grandsons and walks all around my mom’s house not inside we’re I was then she said she’s too nice like saying I’m too nice or maybe I’m a mirror and that’s what she reflected back but what’s her issue I’m single I left a toxic relationship and she burned me when I was in my bad times she went against me

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