Demand Avoidance: Why Requests Feel Like Threats | PDA Explained

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Explore why simple requests can trigger a nervous system threat response. Learn about Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and how the brain processes expectations.

Demand Avoidance: Why Requests Feel Like Threats | PDA Explained

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A warm, conversational podcast episode about overcoming demand avoidance (PDA/nervous system response in autism/ADHD/anxiety). Explain what it is, why pressure backfires, and focus on evidence-based strategies: protecting autonomy, tiny steps, reframing tasks as choices, lowering stakes, and self-compassion. Must be non-shaming and hopeful.

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